Ogre Posted March 6, 2022 Report Posted March 6, 2022 My wife was hit head on by a car running through the stop sign at an intersection this morning. This whole thing is God awful. I got to Strong shortly after they got her here. Her face was beyond swollen and she was vomiting so much blood. I thought I was going to lose her. She has multiple facial fractures, broken arm, broken vertebrae. She is stable but the true extent of the damage is unknown. I’m a ***** mess but I’m not leaving here until they chase me out. I want to strangle the mother ***** that ran the stop sign to death. 4 Quote
Weave Posted March 6, 2022 Report Posted March 6, 2022 On 3/6/2022 at 3:16 AM, Ogre said: My wife was hit head on by a car running through the stop sign at an intersection this morning. This whole thing is God awful. I got to Strong shortly after they got her here. Her face was beyond swollen and she was vomiting so much blood. I thought I was going to lose her. She has multiple facial fractures, broken arm, broken vertebrae. She is stable but the true extent of the damage is unknown. I’m a ***** mess but I’m not leaving here until they chase me out. I want to strangle the mother ***** that ran the stop sign to death. Expand Good luck. Fortunately, modern trauma treatment is amazing. Quote
Eleven Posted March 6, 2022 Report Posted March 6, 2022 On 3/6/2022 at 3:16 AM, Ogre said: My wife was hit head on by a car running through the stop sign at an intersection this morning. This whole thing is God awful. I got to Strong shortly after they got her here. Her face was beyond swollen and she was vomiting so much blood. I thought I was going to lose her. She has multiple facial fractures, broken arm, broken vertebrae. She is stable but the true extent of the damage is unknown. I’m a ***** mess but I’m not leaving here until they chase me out. I want to strangle the mother ***** that ran the stop sign to death. Expand Om\igosh. I'm glad that she's ok; are YOU ok? Quote
Ogre Posted March 6, 2022 Report Posted March 6, 2022 On 3/6/2022 at 3:40 AM, Eleven said: Om\igosh. I'm glad that she's ok; are YOU ok? Expand She is so busted up that it’s killing me. Her face was literally smashed in. I am a GD mess. I’m exhausted and haven’t eaten anything but a rice krispy treat from vending all day. Quote
Ogre Posted March 6, 2022 Report Posted March 6, 2022 It’s been 22 hrs since the accident and she’s still in ER. Her spine looks ok but there is a ton of damage to her face. She’s going to need plates and screws to put it back together. Her jaw is badly damaged so talking is difficult. All I can do is sit next to her bed and hold her hand. And cry. Quote
dudacek Posted March 6, 2022 Report Posted March 6, 2022 Jesus man… Words fail. Feeling for you both. Quote
French Collection Posted March 6, 2022 Report Posted March 6, 2022 On 3/6/2022 at 3:24 PM, Ogre said: It’s been 22 hrs since the accident and she’s still in ER. Her spine looks ok but there is a ton of damage to her face. She’s going to need plates and screws to put it back together. Her jaw is badly damaged so talking is difficult. All I can do is sit next to her bed and hold her hand. And cry. Expand Stay strong, thinking of your family. Look after yourself, she will need you when the medical assistance slows down. Quote
Sabres Fan in NS Posted March 6, 2022 Report Posted March 6, 2022 On 3/6/2022 at 3:16 AM, Ogre said: My wife was hit head on by a car running through the stop sign at an intersection this morning. This whole thing is God awful. I got to Strong shortly after they got her here. Her face was beyond swollen and she was vomiting so much blood. I thought I was going to lose her. She has multiple facial fractures, broken arm, broken vertebrae. She is stable but the true extent of the damage is unknown. I’m a ***** mess but I’m not leaving here until they chase me out. I want to strangle the mother ***** that ran the stop sign to death. Expand So sorry to hear this. Thoughts and prayers sent your way. Quote
Eleven Posted March 6, 2022 Report Posted March 6, 2022 On 3/6/2022 at 3:24 PM, Ogre said: It’s been 22 hrs since the accident and she’s still in ER. Her spine looks ok but there is a ton of damage to her face. She’s going to need plates and screws to put it back together. Her jaw is badly damaged so talking is difficult. All I can do is sit next to her bed and hold her hand. And cry. Expand Make sure you take care of yourself, too. Otherwise you can't take care of her. 2 Quote
Ogre Posted March 6, 2022 Report Posted March 6, 2022 On 3/6/2022 at 4:51 PM, French Collection said: Stay strong, thinking of your family. Look after yourself, she will need you when the medical assistance slows down. Expand On 3/6/2022 at 10:18 PM, Eleven said: Make sure you take care of yourself, too. Otherwise you can't take care of her. Expand Thanks. I’m an Ironworker though so technically I can do anything. She’s been moved to a room in the trauma center. A lot more comfortable and quite. There isn’t any internal injuries or spinal damage, just the damage to the face. The swelling is improving and she’s taking some clear liquids. I brought some undies and pjs in hopes that she’d be able to wear them. They just took the catheter out so I gave her a sponge bath and got her in them. She’s resting a lot better and they’re kicking me out at 8 so I think that I will actually sleep tonight. My lawyer is confident that he’ll mop the floor with the rat bastard that hit her. Long ways to go yet but we’ve taken a step or two. I truly appreciate everyone’s kind words and we’ll wishes.👍 6 Quote
Indabuff Posted March 6, 2022 Report Posted March 6, 2022 On 3/6/2022 at 11:07 PM, Ogre said: Thanks. I’m an Ironworker though so technically I can do anything. She’s been moved to a room in the trauma center. A lot more comfortable and quite. There isn’t any internal injuries or spinal damage, just the damage to the face. The swelling is improving and she’s taking some clear liquids. I brought some undies and pjs in hopes that she’d be able to wear them. They just took the catheter out so I gave her a sponge bath and got her in them. She’s resting a lot better and they’re kicking me out at 8 so I think that I will actually sleep tonight. My lawyer is confident that he’ll mop the floor with the rat bastard that hit her. Long ways to go yet but we’ve taken a step or two. I truly appreciate everyone’s kind words and we’ll wishes.👍 Expand My family and I are thinking of you both brother. I'd say stay strong for her but I know you will. 1 Quote
spndnchz Posted March 7, 2022 Report Posted March 7, 2022 So my Uncle and my Grampa both passed away today. I’ve never had so much pain. 8 Quote
Eleven Posted March 7, 2022 Report Posted March 7, 2022 (edited) On 3/7/2022 at 1:49 AM, spndnchz said: So my Uncle and my Grampa both passed away today. I’ve never had so much pain. Expand That is a tough day. I'm very sorry to hear of it. Hang in there as best you can. Edited March 7, 2022 by Eleven Quote
Weave Posted March 7, 2022 Report Posted March 7, 2022 On 3/7/2022 at 1:49 AM, spndnchz said: So my Uncle and my Grampa both passed away today. I’ve never had so much pain. Expand Oh damn. That is an awful day. So sorry to hear. Quote
French Collection Posted March 7, 2022 Report Posted March 7, 2022 On 3/7/2022 at 1:49 AM, spndnchz said: So my Uncle and my Grampa both passed away today. I’ve never had so much pain. Expand Sorry for your loss, that is tough on a family. Quote
Sabres Fan in NS Posted March 7, 2022 Report Posted March 7, 2022 On 3/7/2022 at 1:49 AM, spndnchz said: So my Uncle and my Grampa both passed away today. I’ve never had so much pain. Expand Sorry for your loss. It's hard. Thoughts and prayers. Quote
MattPie Posted March 7, 2022 Report Posted March 7, 2022 Not a split loyalty you see very often (taken yesterday at Taughannock Falls SP). Quote
SwampD Posted March 7, 2022 Report Posted March 7, 2022 On 3/7/2022 at 5:08 PM, MattPie said: Not a split loyalty you see very often (taken yesterday at Taughannock Falls SP). Expand I know a few. Quote
Sabres Fan in NS Posted March 7, 2022 Report Posted March 7, 2022 On 3/7/2022 at 5:08 PM, MattPie said: Not a split loyalty you see very often (taken yesterday at Taughannock Falls SP). Expand I like your hat. The goathead is very nice too. 1 Quote
Ogre Posted March 7, 2022 Report Posted March 7, 2022 On 3/7/2022 at 1:49 AM, spndnchz said: So my Uncle and my Grampa both passed away today. I’ve never had so much pain. Expand I’m very sorry. Why does life have to be so GD hard all of the time? Quote
SwampD Posted March 7, 2022 Report Posted March 7, 2022 On 3/7/2022 at 7:25 PM, Ogre said: I’m very sorry. Why does life have to be so GD hard all of the time? Expand I’m on a max recovery day here. What normally takes an hour is taking all day. Resting, stacking wood, resting, stacking wood, resting, and more resting. Thinking about you a lot, though, and wishing you and your wife the best. Quote
Ogre Posted March 8, 2022 Report Posted March 8, 2022 On 3/7/2022 at 8:23 PM, SwampD said: I’m on a max recovery day here. What normally takes an hour is taking all day. Resting, stacking wood, resting, stacking wood, resting, and more resting. Thinking about you a lot, though, and wishing you and your wife the best. Expand Thank you, man. She’s improved enough that she may come home tomorrow to wait for surgery. So many breaks in her face that her entire upper jaw was broken loose and shoved up into her nasal cavity. She’s a lot tougher than I ever expected. The worst part is I'm the one that’s supposed to be busted up. I have had you in my thoughts and prayers too. Scary *****. There’s no shame in resting, especially someone who has been through what you have. Let’s hope all of us SSers continue to improve and life gets a tad bit easier. 3 Quote
Sabres Fan in NS Posted March 8, 2022 Report Posted March 8, 2022 This just popped into my head ... Quote
SwampD Posted March 10, 2022 Report Posted March 10, 2022 Not sure if this link will post correctly. I’m on Instagram. This was my morning. https://www.instagram.com/p/Ca7Q2kbrix9/?utm_medium=copy_link It was and is a good one. No complaint thread for me today. 1 Quote
Sabres Fan in NS Posted March 13, 2022 Report Posted March 13, 2022 Every damn year at this time I demand Standard Time year-round!! If it were not a vast wasteland (pretty much) I would move to Saskatchewan immediately. It is far to far from my beloved ocean and Europe and the mountains of the BC interior and parts of Alberta. /rant (until November) 1 Quote
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