Eleven Posted January 7, 2014 Report Posted January 7, 2014 I was going to put this in Thursday's complaint thread, but I think I will want to shut it down after a little while, so I'm starting this separately. Plus, the complaint thread is best left to funny, petty complaints about the person ahead of you in line for coffee and stuff like that. As some of you know directly, my fiancee was diagnosed with cancer three months before we were to have been married. She fought valiantly, but she lost her fight very early yesterday morning. She was a HUGE Sabres fan. If date night was a game night, there was no question what we were going to do. In fact, most nights, if there was a non-Sabres game on NHLN or CBC, that's what she wanted to watch. She even "refused" to leave the hospital upon discharge unless I promised to take her to the home opener this year (which I did, upon two doctors' approval, for one period only, and via cab so that she wouldn't have to walk). (And yes, she would have had to leave anyway.) She cheered the Lindy Ruff firing, but I didn't let it break us up. She also lovingly mocked me for participating on this board--she called it the "Sabre dorkfest," which I think is fine. To me, she was the most wonderful woman in the world. So why am I posting this here? Partly for catharsis, but most of that is over already. Mostly, to thank you folks. The handful (less, actually) of you who knew what I was going through were really supportive, always willing to lend a (virtual, or in freeman's case, physical) ear, and help me deal with things. But every one of you provided a welcome and important diversion over what turned out to be the most difficult five months of my life. This is, after all, a place to go to get away from the real world. And every one of you helped me do that. There are some tough days ahead, but they won't be as tough as the ones we just left behind. I'll be around, because I need to talk hockey and get my mind off of things. So, thank you all, welcome to the youngest widower on the board, and may the sweetest and dearest Sabres fan I ever have known watch from above as the team raises the Cup someday.
TrueBlueGED Posted January 7, 2014 Report Posted January 7, 2014 Wow, so sorry to hear that. You have my sympathies and best wishes going forward as you deal with this.
josie Posted January 7, 2014 Report Posted January 7, 2014 My god. I am so sorry. My heart truly goes out to you. ###### cancer. If you ever need anything, let us know. This little community would do anything to help you. Deepest condolences.
darksabre Posted January 7, 2014 Report Posted January 7, 2014 I have no words man. I guess you know there's a lot of us on this forum who have your back. Amerks game with Ink, Taro, etc. soon?
Taro T Posted January 7, 2014 Report Posted January 7, 2014 11, very sorry for your loss. :( Words don't fully express it.
IKnowPhysics Posted January 7, 2014 Report Posted January 7, 2014 I guess you know there's a lot of us on this forum who have your back. Even if he hasn't been told so, he does.
biodork Posted January 7, 2014 Report Posted January 7, 2014 You've already heard my condolences, and I'm sure no words really exist right now that would ease your pain, but we're here for you, 11. Whether it's a fun diversion or a shoulder to cry on, we're here. May you feel her spirit keeping you company in the days, weeks, and months ahead, and know that you'll never truly be alone.
LastPommerFan Posted January 7, 2014 Report Posted January 7, 2014 Deepest Sympathy, from my entire family, we're here for you like you were and will be for us. Let us know if there is anything we can do to help.
tom webster Posted January 7, 2014 Report Posted January 7, 2014 I am so sorry. I had no idea. Your post was both inspiring and awful at the same time. You will be in my thoughts and prayers for awhile.
Weave Posted January 7, 2014 Report Posted January 7, 2014 Sabres dorkfest. I may just use this in tribute to her. With your permission of course. Godspeed fine lady.
LGR4GM Posted January 7, 2014 Report Posted January 7, 2014 My deepest condolences. I am so sorry 11, I'll say a pray for you both.
WildCard Posted January 7, 2014 Report Posted January 7, 2014 I'm speechless man, I'm so sorry to hear that. Going through something like that has gotta be hard, my condolences. Here's to hoping she's in a better place, and she gets to see us raise the cup one day.
Claude_Verret Posted January 7, 2014 Report Posted January 7, 2014 I cannot even begin to imagine what you are going through. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
beerme1 Posted January 7, 2014 Report Posted January 7, 2014 Terribly sad news Eleven. Sorry for your loss and hope you can carry on knowing she will always be with you watching the game. Take care my man.
spndnchz Posted January 7, 2014 Report Posted January 7, 2014 I was just thinking about you guys. Too soon man. Too soon. Sorry for your loss 11.
... Posted January 7, 2014 Report Posted January 7, 2014 My condolences, Eleven. That has to be tough. I can't think of what else to say that could possibly be of comfort or relevance, but I wish I could.
kishoph Posted January 7, 2014 Report Posted January 7, 2014 My deepest sympathy out to you and your family.
LaLaLaFontaine Posted January 7, 2014 Report Posted January 7, 2014 I send you my deepest condolences. I include you in my prayer tonight.
Eleven Posted January 7, 2014 Author Report Posted January 7, 2014 I have no words man. I guess you know there's a lot of us on this forum who have your back. Amerks game with Ink, Taro, etc. soon? Definitely, but I'm not driving through the ###### I drove through last time! Sabres dorkfest. I may just use this in tribute to her. With your permission of course. By all means. Finally, something I wrote to a few others today: Please, do not feel sorry for me; instead, turn to someone whom you love, give them a strong hug, and tell them that you love them. For all those who have asked whether there is anything you can do, please do that. And thank you again.
nfreeman Posted January 7, 2014 Report Posted January 7, 2014 Dammit. I am so sorry my friend. God bless you and your family.
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