I have to say that Inky was not directing his comment to you for relaying the information, but wanted to make it clear for anyone that was thinking of making an ignorant comment about Taylor when addressing yours. Inky did not say that you were judging.
One thing that I will say about your post above is that you have no idea what anyone else on the board has faced, so you can't say probably more than anyone else. Like Inky said, we all face things in this life. And we all deal with them in different ways.