I got pulled over once, .28 driving one night while I was in medial school. Cop knew that if the university found out, I'd get the boot, so he kindly let me sleep it off in the Tim Hortons I was in front of. Perhaps different times, but I never did that again. I imagine Mair is in a situation where maybe a touch of grace will lead to a change in habits (though 3 kids in the car is hard to swallow) ... And if not, we'll, then the decision comes down very hard.